Cage, A few things about Bar ( Barre ) cords..
I would practice them. It will only make you a more rounded player, it gives your hands muscle memory for many other chords down the road in playing. your hand will get stronger and you will see it is easier .
Also, many "beginner" guitars are not set up well, the action is too high, and it is very hard to make a good Barre Cord , especially near the nut ( at the "F" cord area ). So go to the local guitar store and try a few different brands and shapes and sizes, and see if the Barre is any easier... Also, try and play one string at a time to make sure you are getting a clean sound on each string. That seems to be the main problem, one or two get muffled..
I just had a minor adjustment, and my first fret Barre cording ( the "F" "B" chords ) are not easy like they were before my adjustment, so it needs to go back for a little tweaking..
That being said, Lindsy Buckingham from Fleetwood Mac wrote he still can't do Barre Cords.. And I am not good at them either, but I can still play tunes I enjoy with open chords.
So don't worry if you decide not to pursue the infamous Barre Chord because it is tough, you will always have those great standard Open chords we all learned and still play <img src="images/smiley_icons/icon_smile.gif" border=0 alt="Smile">