Welcome to Chordie.
Sorry, I saw the topic title and didn't respond because I don't particularly care for that song and assumed that you were asking for the chords or the strum pattern (which you were) and I wouldn't be able to answer it.
As a general issue, I don't much care for the "real" patterns. I play everything my own way, trying to work in some familiar elements but not overly worried about it. That said, it wouldn't bother me a lick if you did "Wind Beneath the My Wings" as a heavy metal song complete with cannons and trash can lids. So, I'm not really a good person to ask for patterns. Just experiment and do what sounds good TO YOU and forget about how Bette Midler did it. Especially considering that that is a heavily orchestrated song with a lot of production work done to it, it's going to be next to impossible for you to make a single acoustic guitar sound the same.
As far as your questions on the chords, something isn't ringing right but I don't know precisely what it is. I suggest perusing through the Music Theory forum. You won't see many posts from me there, but I sure do like to read the material presented there. We are blessed with some knowledgeable people willing to share, and able to share in a way that's understandable.
As far as what to expect, I think lack of response to a single post is a poor indicator one way or the other. Stick with us, keep reading and keep asking.
- Zurf
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