I've been using a Mel Bay book titled "You Can Teach Yourself Fingerstyle Guitar". It comes with a CD and is easy to follow. It's chock full of good exercises and patterns. I've ignored most of the lessons and just used some of the patterns I liked and then started applying them to songs or making up my own patterns to fit the songs. But the first dozen lessons or so are critical to getting your fingers to work and how to make them work. The hardest part is getting your thumb to keep a bass line going while getting your fingers to do a different fill line. I kind of gave up on doing that and started doing some rhythm stuff with all the fingers just doing their own thing.
Anyway, as you can tell from my ridiculously loose interpretation, my recommendation is to just jump in after getting a little basic learning, which I expect pretty much any book from a reputable publisher can give you.
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