Yes you can!
First, get your wrist way out in front of the neck. It will feel goofy, but it's where it needs to be. Planting the pad of your thumb on the back of the neck helps a lot.
Second, don't try to play the chords just yet. Only place the barre with only your index finger. (This is actually a 13m chord, but whatever). Strike each note until you have them barred cleanly. Move it around, and do it some more. Once you can get the barre down clean, then start adding other fingers. Do this every day.
Once your hands get strong enough you'll wonder what all the hubbaloo was about.
Someday we'll win this thing...
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