Kahuna,
I'm afraid I don't know of anything here that will explain what I mean, so I'll give it a go.
Okay, taking my first example of 320002. Each individual digit represents the fret to be fretted on each of the six strings. So, the 3 on the far left means that you should fret the third fret of the sixth (thickest) string.
The next digit from the left (2) means that you should fret the fifth string at the second fret.
The next three strings are open (0), so no fingers are needed here.
The final digit on the right (2) is for the first (thinnest) string so you fret the second fret of the first string. Voila!
Unfortunately, you rarely get an indication of which fingers to use with this sort of chord diagram, but in this case I would use my middle finger for the sixth string, my index finger for the fifth string and my ring finger for the first string.
This isn't mean't to be patronising in any way so forgive me if I'm covering things you already know, but I thought it was worth trying to explain it thoroughly.
I'm afriad I'm still not sure which chord you are trying to play. I've just been having a go at working it out from your description and I just can't get it. Maybe you could try and work it out like I have above and write it down for us to see.
Ant