Hi Jason and congratulations on wanting to create songs. Everybody's preferred method is unique, but this is what works for me. Observe and listen to life carefully. Jot down interesting words, phrases, & things - anything that 'resonates' in your imagination is raw fuel for your creative fire.
Start out by using basic structural templates borrowed from existing songs. Base your first creations on basic chord structure, lyrical meter, and overall form of your template songs. I would suggest traditional folk or country-type songs as being excellent basic templates.
Keep it simple - don't feel like you have to create the world's most meaningful and orginal song. Pick an idea that seems interesting, ponder it from a few different angles and jot down your thoughts/images. If one idea is not progressing, start on another or another.
Very simple ideas can be nurtured into songs - complex ideas typically need to be distilled down into a simpler form to be used in songs. Most songs are about one simple idea that has been lovingly polished and nurtured.
Practice recognizing ideas - and practice expanding upon those ideas. Have a notebook where you can keep all your scribble scraps and working ideas together. Ideas that don't work today may be perfect for another day.
If you want to get good at anything you need to do it every day - do it when you feel like it and do it especially when you don't feel like it. For me, songwriting is like a puzzle that is never finished - there are always new ideas that need nurturing. Hope this helps - James
"That darn Pythagorean Comma thing keeps messing me up!"
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