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Well I haven't been postin much lately and have been very busy with work. I still play every day and miss having time to participate on Chordie and am gonna make an effort to make the time.

I have played at several weddings and I like to entertain when I can but have never been asked to play at a funeral. My wife's father passed away and she asked if I would play a song at the service Monday , I couldn't say no and I hope it goes well.

Anyway sometimes we have to "Stop and Smell the Roses" . I need to for sure.......................

Thanks to all my Chordie Friends for the great place to visit , reflect and be a part of the Best Site on the Net.....


Wayne P

Later, Wayne P

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Hey Wayne - I hear you. I go through spells of posting then not, but I have found all the chordie folk are pretty forgiving. I'm sure you will perform well at the funeral.

J  E  T  S
...and yet a Washington Commanders fan (unless they change their name again) ...long story...HTT...C

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What song(s) are you playing, Wayne?

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Wlbaye,
Sorry for your loss.

I've found Chordie to be not only helpful but also a home away from home although I've never met any of the members face-to-face.
dj

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tubatooter1940 wrote:

What song(s) are you playing, Wayne?

I played a few different songs for the family to choose from and  they  decided on  "In the Garden"




Thanks.

Wayne P

Later, Wayne P

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Beautiful song.  My mother used to sing that to me as a lullaby.  To this day, hearing it evokes those feelings of peace and security as a little boy wrapped up snug in my bed with a loving mother sitting on the side.  Aw darn it, I'm tearing up.

I'm sorry for your loss. 

- Zurf

Granted B chord amnesty by King of the Mutants (Long live the king).
If it comes from the heart and you add a few beers... it'll be awesome! - Mekidsmom
When in doubt ... hats. - B.G. Dude

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So sorry Wayne. I hope you and especially your wife is taking your loss well. I'm sure everyone will
    get comfort from your performance.              Mike

Our intuitions serve us well

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It's sad that it takes a funeral to get us pointed in the right direction and make us realize, that we do indeed, need to stop and smell the roses, Wayne.  Heed the call, as we all should and take advantage of your insight and slow down and enjoy.  I am sure you will perform well at the funeral.  Good luck, bud.

You can see all my video covers on [url]http://www.youtube.com/bensonp1000[/url]
I have finally found happiness in my life.  Guitars, singing, beer and camping.  And they all intertwine wonderfully.

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Like our mutual friend Southpaw would say - Family, Peace and Guitars... Sounds to me like you've got your priorities straight. Give the wife a hug from me.

Jeff

Rule No. 1 - If it sounds good - it is good!

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Wayne, it will be nice to see you around here more often... but no matter, we're like good friends who don't talk forever, but can pick up right where we left off right?  smile

Hugs to you, Lizzy, and the kids and rest of the family.  I can't imagine playing at a family member's service, I wouldn't be able to make it though even part of a song (but then, I'm a cry baby!).  ((HUGS))  May the big guy above be with you and guide you along as your playing will surely be a pleasure to all who hear it at the service. 

Amy

Art and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder.
What constitutes excellent music is in the ears of the listener.

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So sorry to hear of your Family's loss, it's always a hard time when that happens, wishing you and your Family well.

Cam

Keep a fire burning in your eyes
Pay attention to the open sky
You never know what will be coming down

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Hi wayne,sorry too hear of the loss,good to see you back. I thinkyou will do alright at the service.

my papy said son your going too drive me too drinking if you dont stop driving that   Hot  Rod  Lincoln!! Cmdr cody and his lost planet airman

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Sorry for your loss. God Bless.

George

I used to be disgusted; now I try to be amused.
Elvis Costello

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My condolences to your family Wayne and i am sure you will do a good job with the song.:)

"Growing old is not for sissies"

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Thanks Everyone,

The service went very well and it was more of a celebration of life. My brother in law did a Eulogy for his father and it was nice. I followed with "In the Garden" I did a fingerpicking version and I thought it turned out really nice. My wife asked me to do it so I tried my best for her. I didn't have alot of notice but I practiced it over and over and I made it through without a bobble.

This was the first funeral I have played and even though I wasn't nervous it is hard not to have a lump in your throat when you have been sitting with folks that are crying. The funeral director asked me to say a few words before I played so I walked up front sat down with my amp and mic in front of the Catholic Church plugged in my guitar and told the crowd I was gonna do a quick tune up cause I needed all the help I could get from my J-45. I then assured my sister in law that my song choice would have no mention of "Trains, Mama, Prison or Gettin Drunk" she still thinks I'm a bad boy and may not do the right thing at times and probably rightfully so. I dedicated it to Lizzies , Father and it was one of his favorites.
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The song went well and even my Mother liked it and she hates my music. She overheard a couple ladies behind her say  that was a most beautiful version of the song. Lots of kids and friends there so it was a very good day.   

Tops, I Like "Peace, Family & Guitars"

Later, Wayne P

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Hi wayne,glad too hear everything went well,hope you get some happier gigs for awile and your family is feeling better.

my papy said son your going too drive me too drinking if you dont stop driving that   Hot  Rod  Lincoln!! Cmdr cody and his lost planet airman

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Aw, that made me tear up.   I have a similar thing coming up for a friend's mom's memorial and it was a result of playing in her bedroom 4 days before she passed.  She asked if we would do her a favor.   Of course, we said yes.  Well, she asked if we would do a celebration of her life when the weather broke and we all agreed we would.  She requested no observance otherwise.   So now I'm practicing more vigilantly for a few requested songs.

I'm so sorry about your family's loss Wayne.  Hugs and prayers.

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I get the old lumpy throat real easy at these things too.  Not sure I could have done as well as you did.

You can see all my video covers on [url]http://www.youtube.com/bensonp1000[/url]
I have finally found happiness in my life.  Guitars, singing, beer and camping.  And they all intertwine wonderfully.

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topdown wrote:

Like our mutual friend Southpaw would say - Family, Peace and Guitars... Sounds to me like you've got your priorities straight. Give the wife a hug from me.

Jeff

Mee too(hugs)-  so sorry for your loss. Keep putting smiles on faces with your music !!!!!

Give everything but up.

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Sorry for your loss too Gabby.

Granted B chord amnesty by King of the Mutants (Long live the king).
If it comes from the heart and you add a few beers... it'll be awesome! - Mekidsmom
When in doubt ... hats. - B.G. Dude

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condolances to you and the famiily gabby,give a good send off with some stand up playing,you can do it!!

my papy said son your going too drive me too drinking if you dont stop driving that   Hot  Rod  Lincoln!! Cmdr cody and his lost planet airman