I like fingerpicking for some reason. I don't listen to all that much fingerpicking music, but I rather like it in my playing. Goes back to my bass days, I guess. Anyway, when I play with a pick, it took me a while to figure out to use a fairly soft pick to let me hold on more. So I kept dropping picks until figuring out that little nugget of information for myself. But I wouldn't stop playing the song, I'd just start strumming with my fingers. I found that if I do my downstrokes with my index finger and my upstrokes with my thumb that I didn't catch. By having the fingers at an angle to the strings, and because I already had some bit of nail protruding from my finger for the fingerpicking, the strumming went a lot better. Now, to Crowellb's point, using a pick is still better for strumming I think. But, if you HAVE to strum with your fingers, try that thumb/index finger technique and see if it works for you.
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