Naoslager, Thanks for looking. That's not the one, unfortunately.
Mekidsmom, Comments not intended to be bashing Topdown. Did not say that it's believed that the buyer stole the guitar. Take him at his word that he was 250 miles away on Amelia Island, as written on this forum, at the time of delivery. Just wish that circumstances and communications had been different. Think we all want to have safe transport and delivery of guitars. First one that has ever ended up disappearing on us -- and first one without the signature requirement and insurance.
Please understand that this whole thing is upsetting. Upsetting that my husband forgot to add the signature requirement and insurance. Upsetting to read that our guitar ends up being the one and only package among many that has disappeared from the buyer's front door after delivery without a signature (but yes, we are glad he has not had others disappear, including the $10,000 engagement ring). Upsetting to read on this forum that the buyer would have been home at 6:00 p.m. had he not gone away on the day of delivery. Upsetting not to have had the information that he would not be there ahead of time, so we could call UPS and have the package held. Upsetting to read that his son arrived home at 6:30 p.m., with instructions to bring the package inside but not open the case, and discovered the guitar missing. Upsetting to have had UPS send both of us a message confirming delivery, which came through at 6:31 p.m., and read that the buyer received it. Upsetting to learn, two days later, that the guitar was missing. Upsetting to have lost two days that we could have been looking for the guitar. Upsetting to be called "stupid" and "asinine", despite trying to get the guitar to the buyer by Friday, as he wished, and after sending him (on Tuesday) the tracking information with Friday designated for delivery. Upsetting to be out the guitar and the cash. Upsetting to think that a very nice guitar is possibly being trashed.
Lesson learned here! My husband will remember the signature requirement and insurance. Most likely no more PayPal sales, and no more UPS though. Probably no more shipping to residences either; instead, probably shipping to a delivery site with a photo identification required for pickup.
As for contacting the local Sheriff's Office, we did so based on the premise the Martin disappeared from the buyer's front door and in hopes of recovering the Martin sooner rather than later. We also regarded it as a necessary step in light of our UPS claim. Based on a conversation with the detective, our understanding is that Florida shops accepting used items for resale, such as guitars, are legally required to report them to law enforcement. According to the detective, that includes pawn shops as well as shops such as Guitar Center which buy and sell used guitars. She has photos, along with the serial number of the Martin, and has been checking the information against inventory lists.