......... and what do you think you need to get you out of it and begin playing again?
First, this post isn't about those of you who, like our friend Classical Guitar are dedicated to your instrument, and it's not about those of you who play for a living or even those of you who love music so much you would sleep with your guitar if folks didn't think you were weird for doing so.
It's for folks like me who are having problems with motivation - which turns to guilt - which turns to self-anger at being so lazy.
I'm just going to throw some things out at you which I am experiencing and maybe you can relate or maybe you can't, but these are real and they keep me from playing. Bear with me......
1. My fingernails need trimming. Being that I have thick fingers and am arthritic in them, the best thing to get a clear-sounding chord is for me to keep my nails short, but for some reason not trimming them when they interfere, makes me say "Oh well, I won't sound good anyway and I don't think they need it yet, so I'll just wait"
BOOM - A chance to play or practice is missed.
2. Worried about something. This may be one you can relate to, but as my dad once told me, "Worry is like a rocking chair. You can do it all day, but it gets you nowhere." Still, I give in to it and......
BOOM Another one gone.
3. "I Just don't feel like it, okay????" That's the one I have the most trouble defending, especially since I almost daily hum a song in my head or am working out some words.....
"There they sit, Bill. All three of them in their little stands, just waiting for you to pick one of them up and work that tune out, but you're gonna pass them by, aren't you?"
Yep, and BOOM that's three down.
There may be more, but that's what came up in my befuddled brain on short notice.....
Now, what can happen to get me to pay attention to those three fine ladies again?
Someone could knock on my door, and upon opening it, I'd see an old friend with his guitar case in his hand (and maybe a six-pack of cold ones, but not necessary) asking if I have time to do some pickin' and grinnin'.
THAT'S what would do it. That's the thing.
Oh, I remember what I wrote previously about joining our church band, but that didn't really turn out as planned. I mentioned it to our pastor, and he said he'd pass it along, but since then - nothing, and my personality is such that I usually don't ask twice - this may also be why I didn't have many dates in high school. THAT and I thought one really had to have feelings of love for a girl to ask her out, but that's another story,
So how about you, dear friends and family? Got anything you wanna share?
Thanks
Bill