This question is kinda hard to answer. Kinda like why all the yourapeeing folks put a "r" in a**. Sorry I just was not sure of the spelling of European. Is this correct?

Nela

DocPhil, I gotta admire you for the effort you are putting forth. I, too have back problems, although no where as severe as what you are going through. I've had 2 back surgeries due to ruptured disc's and was told by the doctor that I could be put on total disability if that was what I wanted. I didn't!!! There is not a day goes by that I don't wake up hurting or go to bed hurting but I do suffer through it. I do not know and probally will never know everything that is going on in your life but even though we are thousands of miles apart you have all my support and prayers. What I mentioned in my post above was not meant to be cruel but I thought I was reading a lotta "Poor Ole Me" issues kinda between the lines. Your accident was a life changing incident that can never be changed. But in reading your posts I can tell that your mind is razor sharp and what you lack in ability you make up for with desire. I'm the kinda guy that has no problems saying what is on his mind. I would rather tell you the facts than to tell you what you want to hear. What I say is said honestly and without malice. Now, enough of that. So you cannot play standing up and must sit. When sitting to play you have problems sitting for long periods of time. OK, so how do we get around that? Is it your wheel chair or just the type of chair you're sitting in that is causing your discomfort while playing. Is some kinda different type of chair needed? Is there some kinda physical therapy excerises you can do to help you sit and play longer? By knowing what the problems are we can come to the solution. Do you have any ideas of what would help remedy your situation? I hear you when you say you would like to take some lessons but would have difficulties getting to and from them. What about a Chordie brother or sister coming to you? I see that you are in Beguim. I don't know the layout there in your part of the world but I do know we have a lotta Chordie brothers and sisters in the surrounding area's. I challenge each and everyone of them to see where they can be of help to you. I know you are a proud man and don't want to ask for assistance but you are in the Chordie Family and family helps family. Come On Chordie - the MAN needs a little SUNSHINE. Lets make it SHINE for him!!!!!!!!!

Your Buddy
Nela

Ok, let's try this from a different direction. Did the music die all on it's own of did the producers kill it. A lotta music (and musicans) have been kick into the ditch simply because the producers did not want to sell that style of music. Toby Kieth and Clint Black, although not exactly OLD TIME musicans, they were very popular until they weren't allowed to do THEIR music as thay wanted too and were blacklisted by MUSIC CITY. If you go to the honky-tonks located most anywhere across the south / west you will see the parking lots filled with vehicles of people who like the old time music. If it wasn't good how come Ray Price is still doing sell out shows at 83 years old? I'm not saying the new country music is bad, I'm saying that it's hust not what country music is about. To me DISCO ruined EVERYTHING!


Nela

This is my feelings - There is NO More couintry music, today. What you have is country rock, country blues and country crap (sorry rap). Now there is a place for this music and if this is what you like - great. Me, I like the old stuff - it tells a story, it's about love, family, cheatin', honky-tonkin'. trucks, women, girls and ladies, good times and bad,  - but always a story. Old time country music had HEART because the musicans wrote about life experiences (mostly their own) You can say the same thing about the OLD TIME rock and roll music. Todays music just does not compare to what was wrote in the 40's, 50's and 60's. Did Garth Brooke kill country music - me, I don't know - but he did help it get to a fork in the road and take a direction away from what COUNTRY music should be.


Nela

955

(42 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Dude's and dudette's, if ya'll can find a song by Floyd Cramer (Skeeter Davis does a great vocal version) called My Last Date it can be used as a good "trainer" for the chord progression of "C", "F" and "G". The song is in 3/4 time so it is nice and slow with the chord changes. The strum is D...D...U...D...U...D
             1...2....&...3...&...1.

The chords are C (1 measure), F (3 measures), C ( 1 measure), F (3 measures), C (1 measure),
F (2 measures), C( 1 measure), G (1 measure), C (1 measure), F (1 measure), C (1 measure), G (1 measure), C (1 measure), G (1 measure), C repeats as 2nd verse.

As you strum these chords while making the changes (C to F to G) pay attention to your ring finger. Form a C chord then change to the full barre F chord. NEVER MOVE YOUR RING FINGER! Your ringer finger can stay in position, keeping preasure on the string. Now in the change to the G chord. Again, use a full barre G chord. IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU ARE GOING FROM "C" TO "G" OR "F" TO "G". Your ring finger STAY"S in position. It just slides up 2 frets!!!!!!!

Use your ring finger as a KEY to form these chords. This will be your anchor point and everything will flow from there. This will work for any 3 chord song in the key of "C". This has helped me with my barre chords and I find that the barre chords are easier to practice if I am practicing them to a song. Anyway, try this and see if it helps with the barre chords.

Nela

Old Doll, Please forward the e-mail about the "extentions" to me. Thank you darling


Nela

DocPhil. I, too, am having problems understanding your statement of not being able to keep rhythm? I have read a lot of your posts and get the feeling that you are feeling a little bit sorry for yourself due to your physical condition. NOW, I am not saying this to be cruel in any shape form or fashion. While we have never met, thru our communication here on Chordie, I do feel as though we are friends and that is why I am making these comments. Please do not read anything else into these comments other that of friend talking to friend.

So what if you have a handicap. Your mind is bright and sharp. You may have slowed down a step or two but it do seem as though you still have a strong desire to go forward with your music. I say, do it. You wanna take guitar lessons, go for it. Any guitar teacher worth the title "Teacher" should be happy to help you. You say you cannot play while standing - then learn to play while sitting. Need someone to play music with - ask around. Shoot, you probally know enough to do a little teaching to a niece / nephew or neighbor's child and get them interested in this great hobby. You seem to have a vast knowledge about different guitars and equipment (I know from your posts that you do have a talent for researching these products) - how about a part time job at a guitar store. It's all about mind over matter. If you don't mind then it don't matter. Keep a positive attitude. Again, please understand that this is coming from my heart and nothing else.


Nela

958

(11 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Just remember to never stop strumming. Keep the strum going without any change in the rythem as you mahe the chord changes. As you are learning try to keep a beat count in your head to the strum pattern you are using. Visualize the chord change in your mind prior to making the change and just keep practicing.

Nela

959

(11 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Frankster, I too had problems with changing from D to Bm or A to Bm. I never had any problems making the chord changes while sitting down but I could never make the changes smoothly while standing. After many long hours of doing nothing but practicing those changes I have no problems, now.

Nela

960

(11 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Astro5mile, my advice is to keep on practicing and I know how much we all hate to hear that word. But that is how we get better. The "D" chord is just another chord that you simply need to develope your muscle memory too. Just try to strum in any chord progression that has a "D" chord in it and do it over and over again. Repition is where you develope muscle memory. Don't worry about how your struming sounds just concentrate on making the changes slowly and smoothly. Your natural speed will come all on it's own. Do this 10 minutes a day and you will soon have the "D" mastered. If you continue to have to look at the fret board (and there is nothing wrong with that) try make your chord changes with your eye's closed or the lights out. It'll help. You can practice any chords you are having trouble with this way BUT be prepared to cuss the "B" chord for the rest of your lifetime. As for the F#m7 - forget about it!

Nela

961

(19 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Sometimes you get to a point that everything is just too frustrating. All you need to do is back-off, take a little break and come at the problem from a different angle. That angle could be talking to other musicans, sitting in and playing with other musicans, taking a lesson or 2 from a qualified teacher or just relaxing for a while. For me, I've found that when I am having difficulties with a song I can leave it for a few days then it just comes easier. Not long back my wife and I were asked to do a 5 to 7 song set at a local "open mike" nite establishment. Well I had heard a song that I just could not get outta my head and my wife also liked it. I had the CD with the song and I found the words without the chords. By trial and error I found that the key I needed to do the song in was "C" but I just could not get the chord progerssion right and I was badly frustrated. My wife and I went to a local music store in our town to see if I could find some sheet music there for this song. One thing lead to another and we could not find the lyrics, chords or anything. The counterperson asked if he could play the CD so he could listen to the song and as the song was playing one of the guitar teachers came out to listen as well. After the songs played a couple of times the "teacher" and I got started talking and I told him my problems. He said he had just had a student cancel a lesson and he was free and for me to "come on back". It took him a matter of minutes to listen to the song, play the song and then tab it out for me. All this and he refused to let me pay him for the canceled lesson. By the end of the day I was playing the song and my wife was singing it. So, my advice to you would be when you hit the wall - back up - take a breath - and come at the problem a little differently. Ask for help when you need it and be sure to be thankful for the help when you get it.

Nela

The Simpsons: The Movie. This is a must see for everyone and soon it will be a classic.

Nela

963

(10 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Are you or is anyone else going to be singing the songs as you play them? If so, then you will need to play the songs in the key the person is singing in. This makes a HUGE difference in how (what chords) the song is played. Most any song can be transposed into different chords to match the singers voice and this is important you one to learn.Go to the "SONG" tab and you can pull up  a huge selection of easy songs and most will have a transpose function on the right hand side of the page for you to change the chords. Remember, the musican plays for the singer - not the other way.

Nela

964

(7 replies, posted in Electric)

Lynxpilot, you and I are in the same boat as I played a little in my teenage years, quit and then started playing again at age 54. I've had a few lessons but mainly I've learned on my own. Thanks to the internet information highway there are many places to get help and Chordie is the best of the best. My advice to you would be to listen to the songs you want to learn and try to keep time to the music by tapping your foot to the beat. Take a simple song and determine what timing it is, 3/4, 4/4 or whatever. A 3/4 timing is considered to be a waltz beat, by most and the count will be 1 - 2 - 3 - 1 - 2 -3 - repeat. A 4/4 timing will be 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 1 repeats. Count to the bass beats of the song. As you get to where you can keep the beat of the song by tapping your foot to the music try to do the same with your hand in a strumming movement. Then that will take you to strumming the guitar with the rythem of the song. It takes practice and effort on your part but the reward will be worth your time. Take your time, learn to practice correctly and stay with it.

Nela

965

(42 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Roger, I guess I just got my "up's and down's" mixed up when I made that post. BUT, it's just been that kind'a day. 1st thing this morning I had a backlash in the toilet paper and it's not gotten any better all day long.

Nela

If you are writting a country song be sure to put something in about a "bottle, a love gone wrong (maybe something happened while he wuz wrestlin' that bear), chewin' tobacco and a pick-up truck".

Nela

967

(42 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Never fear the "F" chord. With practice it will become easy. A good chord progression to practice is Open C to F (XX3211) to G (XX5433) YES this form of "F" is movable up and down the fretboard. Try the "finger roll mentioned above to get from C to F then hold that position and slide everything down 2 frets to G. And practice, practice, practice. Once you have the "F" chord mastered and are proud of yourself you can look forward to the MEAN and NASTY "B" chord!

Nela

In a lotta Country songs the chord progression will be in "G" and bridge to "C" at the chorus. I would also put in some good sounding "turn-arounds" as you return to lyric's. Think about a country "shuffle" beat that has a whole lotta rythem to the strum pattern. A good song to listen to for the sound would be "Crazy Over You" by Alan Jackson. Listen to how the "off" chord "A" sounds during the bridge as it leads into the interlude. also, if'n it's Country be sure to throw in some 7th chords.

nela

969

(15 replies, posted in Music theory)

Crowellb, ain't thing's strange. My brother also has a birthday on June 27th. We are twins, although I am the pretty one. And Happy belated  Birthday toand yo're brother, as well.

Nela

Hello and welcome RedRoseGal. Mcpherson's are awesome if'n you can afford one. Anytime there is a new artist it may be diffucult to find their music just because they are new. Sometimes you have to do a search just to find the composer or even find the song as sung by another artist. Try going to theChordie "Song's" page and looking for the title under the songs name. Another thing to do is to just "google" the song title and search thataway. Hope you get a hit on your search.

Nela

971

(17 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Listen to some of the Greats in music. Johnny Cash did not have a great singing voice, neither did Kris Kristoferson, Janis Joplin, Zurf, Tiny Tim, etc. But they had a decent voice and  could connect with the audience, carry the melody of the song and tell a story. I don't sing and probally never will but thats just me. If you think you have the talent to sing, then go for it.

Nela

972

(17 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Listen to Zurf. Also, keep a close ear to the song you are playing. Count to the "beat" of the song. 1, 2, 3 , 4, 1, 2, 3, 4...
                       strum  D D  D  D  D  D  D  D
or

1, 2 & 3 & 4 & 1, 2 & 3 & 4 & 1
D D U D U D U D D U D U D U.

Just by listening to the song the beat will give you the strum pattern, the tempo will give you the timing. If you can tap your foot to the song and keep time then you can strum to the song. Just place a pick between your toes and practice, practice, practice. Once you have learned this you can try placing the pick between your fingers and struming.

Nela

973

(7 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Hello, SunnyGirl. I'm pretty too but I been here for a while. You will like it here as we can treat you so many different ways you gotta like some of them. Just NEVER ask Upyerkilt whats Upyerkilt.

Nela

974

(9 replies, posted in Songwriting)

Zurf, I was reading the song and lookin' at the chords and I got to thinking he goes to "B" 3 different times. I wus kinda thinking 'bout what / how to make a post to express my feelings on the "B" chord and u done beat me to it. And wid all them "SUS" chords how can u use a capo?The GOOD LORD must'a had a resaon in mind for the "B" chord but I ain't figured it out, yet.

Nela

975

(15 replies, posted in Music theory)

Why thank you, Ms Lena. And I guess those traits do kinda sorta discribe me somewhat. But you forget to mention this GREAT BIG OLE






























































Heart, I got.


Nela