I believe it's hard to judge YOUR own music since we do become a little too critical of our sound. I try to judge my sound by the comments I get, or lack of, from the people listening. Prior to playing I try, during practice, to tweak everything as best as I can. During a "sound check" last minute touches can be made to improve everything you have put into place. I like a lotta styles of music but mostly stick to the older country, blues, light gospel. Since I play rythem, I want to hear the song through the strums and chord changes. I don't want to sound like another player, I want to sound like myself. I want to play for the person singing so they can follow the melody of the song. Together, at least for me, these are the 2 key elements for the success of the song.
Nela