Jerry, one big plus to being a one man show is you can do it your way and don't have to argue about it. One thing I learned from a friend though while playing , I couldn't remember the lyrics to the second verse and he whispered in my ear "Just keep strumming it will come to You " . Some folks aren't so forgiving though, if you add an extra measure they are all over it. Playing with others has good and bad sometimes.
I seem to be more relaxed when I play alone and don't have to concentrate as much and sometimes it is more fun that way. It aint easy finding playing partners that are a perfect fit and make you feel at ease.
I feel for you Jerry, that's kind of a tough situation and I hope it works out with no hard feelings. It's been hard for me to find a playing partner, mostly cause I am kind of a folk player in a country or bluegrass area. I have found I am happy alone or with a lead player and a lot of good lead players are just happy to play with somebody.
I've played out a couple times lately with my Fender Ultralight Acoustasonic , I recently added another matching speaker cabinet to it. It has a right and a left output on the back and it has a stereo button it puts out 125W per side and I cannot believe the great feedback I have gotten on my sound. It sure makes a fellar feel good when all your peers are wondering about what your using. It is a spendy unit but it is so easy and fills a room just great. I don't want to start any brand wars but 2 fellas come and told me my sound sure beat the Bose system. Another fella come and told me it sure sounded great but he didn't think it was as good as a Bose . I normally set it and forget it for the night. It has sixteen different effects for vocals and 16 for guitar. I use a little reverb on vocals and just a touch of reverb and delay on guitar. Once my volumes are set I am done messing with it for the night.