NELA I deleted your duplicate post (an accident I'm sure) and Riddler I deleted your "." post (wow what happened there boys? LOL)
I guess the consensus is, if everyone wants to get together to chat it up - the best thing to do is contact via email, or look at the person's profile and contact them via the instant message program that's their favorite - off the chordie site. I agree that a chat room would be nice on the site (or even a shout box), but I just think they would have to be monitored so strongly that it probably won't happen. If anyone wants to attempt to contact Per and ask for it - go for it. I'm sure he'd at least consider something if he had enough requests, like Doug said.
In the mean time, I think it's fair if anyone wants to set something up... maybe an unofficial Chordie online chat meet up, you could say, "If anyone's interested, meet me at 7PM EST on Google Talk and we'll all chat together" - you could do that. I don't think there's anything wrong with inviting others to meet off site, it's been done before in person.
btw - I won't be on google chat tonight at 7PM EST ... LOL! But if someone set the time up, I'd love to "get together" online to chat if the timing fit my personal schedule. I have yahoo, aim, and googleTalk.