I saw the topic posted by Old Doll, and reading this topic made me kind of curious. I play, about 30 years, and in the evolution you see when you play is sometimes very obvious.
There are a few things to write, they tell me that I am a pretty good player, but I am open for everything. I think, playing the guitar ALONE, that there are many obstacles
- learning how to play
- rhythm difficult when playing alone
- how do you play your instrument: what style
I know that when I was still working, my style remained the same for years, but I also saw my progress, and until today my opinion is, if you put a song, or a complete CD in your device, and you can play within a few minutes, the same melody, that you have at least a skill.
Again WHO AM I TO SAY THAT I AM GOOD? When I hear other people play the guitar, I am shrinking very fast, like from 187 cm to 20 cm. I came to the point that I am good playing (strumming, playing a melody on a string while strumming at the same time.
CONCLUSION: if you play YOUR style, YOUR way to play your guitar since 30 years it seems almost impossible, how great my desire is (in my case FINGER PICKING) to learn new ways to play.
I tried too play the finger picking style, but I get nervous, impatient with a result: I can do this maybe, but I am maybe to impatient or is it really difficult to change the way you play?
Am I alone, or are there other players, suffering from the same problem.
What to do about this? I tried instruction videos, but 5 minutes later I am strumming again.